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The Truck

  • Jun. 4th, 2010 at 7:44 PM

Ok, I guess I have neglected to tell the story of the truck, and it is punishing me for it....

Almost three months ago my truck, well the truck my husband uses mostly for work, had it's transmission go out. My hubby the handy man is able to fix it, so he ordered anew one, that took 4 or 5 weeks for the trany to be ready, because it was a higher performance tranny. On April 13th, my husband had it fixed, and had driven it around to make sure all was good, and it was.

Well on April 17th, we had to drive 80 miles to a family birthday party, all I can say is that we barely made it there, and had a loooooooong trip home. So of course big bummer, called the company, got it replaced, and it arrived on May 28 the new one arrived, and on the 30th he had it in. Well guess what? Same problem as before. On June it was no longer working.

So yes officially we are vehicless. We have to hitch rides and borrow cars...lots of fun.

The Book

  • May. 29th, 2010 at 2:19 PM


Yes, that is what it is called right now. I have been working on a two stories since November, and one of them I think is going to be publishable. The other, mmmm, needs work in the storyline before I can deem it worthy of a try, I am trying to find things to add, hoping to make it interesting.

So back to the "The Book," I am toying with titles, but I have not been worried about it because, it's not finished, and I think editing takes a lot more time than figuring out a name...sorry, I know blah blah blah....get to the point.

I am on my second draft, which I started on April 14. I have gone through about 5 chapters (almost 17000 pages) of revision, cutting about 3000 words or so, most of it was handwritten and I haven't counted it. It is amazing how much the story changed from start to end. I hadn't looked at the beginning of the book until I made it to the end of the first draft, with exception of having to flip back to make sure what I was typing concurred with what I wrote before, you know like dates or time of day, when it is mentioned again later.

Reading through the words, were like reading through my old poetry from my teenage years. Though instead of the emotion of where I was, I just remember where I was, for the most part when I wrote it....that doesn't make sense...let me try again, what I mean is, I remember where I thought the story was going when I reread it, and realize how differently the story changed after that.

You know like at the beginning of the story Dorothy was going to be lost in the world with no one to help her find her way home, then I decided I would build a yellow brick road for her to follow. Just an example, though I think it only made things more confusing.

Anyway, this has been an amazing experience completing a story and actually have the will to go back and finish it, I will share my thoughts as they come, and hopefully when I become published, I can be an inspiration, and help other fellow authors, trying to share their voice.

Wish me luck!!!!!


Introduction

  • May. 27th, 2010 at 9:35 AM


So I started this blog hoping to share my wisdom as a young mom, and share my experience in hopefully becoming a published writer, all the while sharpening my writing skills as a story teller. Instead for the last month, it has been a place for me to whine about my life, which has actually been a little fun. Instead of writing about what I want to it has kind of tirned into a story if the unlucky, and I think if I share everything that has been happening, it will also be about the struggles of a family in these hard financial times.

I have not had the time to get it all in, because everyday has been an unlucky adventure. Every time I think my luck is turning around, I am proved wrong. In the coming weeks I will try to write everyday. If nothing "exciting" happens, I will be sure to post about something that has happened that I haven't posted yet, or actually share some of my mommy insight.

Oh yes, I guess this will also be about my blogging experience, because I will post as stuff come along...Yes I know, whose blog isn't about their blogging experience, right? I just though I'd mention it. I will try to keep it raw, and not edit later, but there are no promises. (:

More Car trouble

  • May. 21st, 2010 at 6:22 PM

Again, back to Tuesday. After I left and went home (You know the in-laws) I picked up some clothes and stuff because we needed to head over to my parents' house to house sit for a week and a half. I had been noticing a strange feel in the pedal over the last 2 months and it really seemed apparent on Tuesday.

I really couldn't hear anything but it reminded me of what it feels like when a car backfires, only much, much more subtle. So I pulled over, before I had even made it home to grab the stuff, and checked under the hood. I was joyful when I saw that the air filter bracket had broke and the air filter was not where it was supposed to be. I figured this must be the problem; my car is getting too much airflow and the computer is trying to fix the problem, making a strange vibration in the pedal. The only thin I could find in the car to "fix" it was a bunch of hair bands. So I stung them together, and pulled the air filter back it's proper place.

I knew this wasn't going to hold for very long, but at least it could shed some light, and hopefully the feeling would go away. Of course it didn't. I called up hubby, who was already house-sitting because I couldn't be there, and told him that I think something bad was going to happen to the car, and I explained what I was feeling. I just wanted to make sure that I could make it out to the house that as still 2 hours away.

A couple months ago I had told him that the transmission seemed to be having trouble, meaning sometimes it would shift hard, and little things you might notice when they change. He brushed it off and said he didn't notice anything that I was talking about. I don't blame him though because he was already working on the transmission in his truck, and that's a whole other Oprah.

I made it home, got the stuff and took off. Just before I came to a part in the mountains where I always lose cell service for about 30 minutes, I texted my husband telling him to come get me if he didn't hear from me in 40, I called 35 minutes later, and everything was fine. That is until I was 3 miles from the house. After a turn from a stop sign, there was a really hard shift between first and second. Then just a thud, thud, thud. I pulled over and called hubs again.

He came and picked me up, and my eldest said "Here comes our hero" when she saw the red truck on the horizon. Kids are too cute. Luckily my mom left her car...and the keys, so I am not stranded until she gets home. AS I mentioned before, my husbands transmission went out a few months ago, and I don't know if you have had tranny trouble, but it can be a real pain to get it fixed. We are currently using my parents truck, for my husband to get to work and back. The good news is, is that the new, new replacement transmission came in today, so hopefully by the time my parents get back, I will be able to trade their truck for their jeep, and hubs will have time to work on my car. When he is done with the fence, and the bathroom and anything else that come our way.


A Rainy Day

  • May. 20th, 2010 at 11:02 PM

The other day, Tuesday actually, I was driving along in my car, taking my eldest to do some school testing. We are a home schooling family, so I have to take the kiddos to do their state testing. It was a rainy day here in So Cal, but it was merely a spring drizzle. I have warned my husband tons of time to be careful when it rains like that because the roads can be slick, and he has a bit if a lead foot.

As I am cruising along a mountain range, on a two lane road, my car decided to drift on it's own accord, and suddenly I was looking through my windshield at the car I had seen behind me only seconds before. My five year old, said "that was fun, do it again, Mommy!" My 8 year old said "are you ok?" and the littlest said nothing. I said "we just started to drift into the other lane, and Mommy had to turn around to get out of the way."

My eldest seemed a little unsure, but excepted my explanation once I got back into the car, after checking to see if I had a flat or something. I was just as confused as they were as to what happened. I checked the road behind me to see if I hit a water puddle, because the drifting reminded of hydroplaning, but there was no puddle. Though my husband assumes I was speeding, you know because of his lead foot and all, but I assure you I wasn't. I was the last in a long line of about 10-15 vehicles, patiently driving behind a slow truck.

I must have hit a slick patch of oil, you know one of the ones I always remind my hubby about, because I did not see any water puddles when I got out of the car. I was a little shaken up, but I was fine the rest of the way. I am just lucky that the guy that was speeding up behind me, wasn't any closer, or is HE lucky I was the one that slipped, because he was going much faster than I. Makes you think.


Aunt B.

  • May. 14th, 2010 at 12:46 PM

Aunt B. Editing

The Dogs

  • May. 10th, 2010 at 10:54 PM

I’m sitting here at the in-laws just finishing up lunch and I get yet another phone call from Hubby, I am really starting to not like getting his calls. This time it is a complaint about my dogs. We have border collies, and in general they are very well behaved dogs, they just really like to bark at people passing by. Well we have a short fence so the only dog that is allowed to be in the front is my oldest who is going on 12 years. She is used to being in the front and hasn’t jumped the fence in many, many, many moons.

Across the street from us are somewhere between 15-20 new townhouses, where there are lots of new people moving into the neighborhood, so they do not know our dogs. My oldest dog was teased by some little boys who still live in the neighborhood, and I mean they used to throw rocks at her then run away, whistle, and anything to get the dog to bark. Now, when these "grown up" boys walk in front of the house, my dog really barks at them, and they still tease her.

I can see how to a newcomer this would seem like a mean dog, but really I have watched as they walk by from the window, and I have had to scare them off. They still growl at her and everything, and really sometimes I wish she would bite them just to teach them a lesson, but they know very well that the dog will not jump the fence, nor will she bite them.

So someone called animal control. The lady nearly laughed at my husband when she saw how the dog reacted when she walked up. She laid by the fence and barked. The lady said that she was expecting some dog to come charging her, but she was able to walk right into the yard with only annoying barking.

So in the end it was more of an annoyance that someone called. We were overdue on the licenses this year, so we had to pay for that, otherwise, I am just venting my dislike for our new neighbors. Oh, and now my husband is more intent on building up our fence, something I have been bugging him about for a long time.



The Aftermath

  • May. 2nd, 2010 at 10:55 PM

 

Following the clean up to my daughters little mishap with the toilet, I discovered a leak coming from under it. My husband and I were talking in the hallway when I noticed some new water flowing under the open door. After mopping it up, I told my husband that there was a leak. Of course he didn't believe me, wondering why there would be a leak when the toilet only overflowed.

I was insistent, and he agreed to pull the toilet out, and replace the ring that seals it. We had an extra toilet sitting in the back (who doesn’t right?) waiting to be changed in anyway. So I figured "Yay! I finally get to use our new toilet!" It could be worse, couldn't it?

Yes it could...

After removing the toilet, my husband called me during dance class to inform me that the whole floor needed to be pulled up. *Shock* Not the news you want to hear while sitting in the car waiting for your daughter's dance class (Ha! and you thought I was the dancer, admit it) to end...at 8:00pm. We only have the one bathroom, so of course this meant we had to figure out where we were going to stay. I also had to get all our stuff together quick enough to be asleep at a decent hour, which is a hard task since dance class is 30 minutes away from the house.

After arriving home we called my in-laws, because hubby was too distracted with the demo of our bathroom to do it sooner, and asked if we could stay in their guest house. THANKFULLY the answer was "yes." So here we are living at my in-laws, in a very nice trailer, reminiscing about how nice and big our two bed, one bath house really is.

My husband has been skillfully and diligently, ripping the entire bathroom to pieces. Finding more and more water damage along the way. And yes there is mold, not too bad though, I have heard of worse. Odd thing is, I have been telling my husband that there HAD to be mold somewhere in the house, because the girls and I have been sick a lot this past year. It has seemed like we were catching every bug that was out there. I'm sure he is hearing "I told you so" ringing in his ears, though my lips aren't moving...much...I only said it once, I promise, and I started it with "I knew there..."

The good news in all this, I get an new bathroom. Yay!

 


 

 


This could happen to you!!!

  • Apr. 30th, 2010 at 9:25 AM

 

So, I wanted to start off with something interesting, informative, and about me. Well the other day something presented itself to me, and here it goes.

While I was in the middle of cooking dinner my 5 year old burst into the kitchen jumping up and down so fast that she was trembling, all the while screaming, "Mommy! Mommy! I need you! I need you!" Over and over again. Her eyes were so big I thought they would burst from her head. She was so terrified and hysterical I couldn't imagine what was wrong. I asked what she needed, but all she could repeat was that it was me she needed.

I was aware that my other two daughters were playing in the living room, so I was only worried that it could be them for about half a second. Aside from the terror on her face and the pitch of her voice, I could see that she was not hurt. As we rushed out of the kitchen I asked her where she needed me, and she finally uttered the word "bathroom."

I had a moment of relief when I realized she must have seen a spider. A chill ran down my back as I thought about the possibility of a black widow. I hesitated a second, thinking maybe I should enlist Dad's help. That is when I saw it....the water flowing under the door.

The poor thing had clogged the toilet, then flushed it too many times (four to be exact), hoping to correct the problem. The water was everywhere. Later she told me the story of how she watched as the water spilled out, along with her…mess and paper, and flushed again wishing it would stop.

That is when my final realization that I forgot to pass on a little wisdom that actually would have been useful to my second born. So I urge you ladies and fellows, inform your kiddos (young and old) the secrets of the toilet. If one flush doesn't work go get the nearest adult for help...before it's too late.